Think
back to the first few weeks of meeting your spouse. Do you remember that giddy
feeling, the butterflies at just the thought of him? Waking up with a smile and
not even wanting to go to bed in the first place? Those heady days when the
flame of love was burning bright? Those endless hours spent in passionate
embrace? Now fast-forward a few months, years, decades. Yes, the love may still
be strong, but where’s the excitement; that magnetic passion? Ladies, it’s time
to ignite the spark!
With
the passage of time, things are bound to get comfortable. Fraternal even. No
matter how much in love you remain, your relationship needs a little freshening
up from time to time.A reboot. Ladies, when was the last time you spiced things
up with your man? When last did you experience that exhilarating feeling of being
closer than close to your man? When last did you see his eyes reflect that
passionate fire in yours?
How
can you change this? Simple. A woman who feels beautiful can’t help but project
that feeling to others, and often it can be thelittle unseen things that make
all the difference. One of the 100 most
influential people of the 20th century, Coco Chanel, once said “A woman should
wear perfume wherever she wants to be kissed”. Translation – smell
irresistible!
Where
love lives, every womanshould not just want romance and fun in her relationship,
she should create it. Research shows that 43% of women are as likely as men to
initiate that spark, while more than 21% take the initiative and start the
fireworks.
So
stop hoping for that excitement to come back on its own. Ignite the spark with
some of the tips below:
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A favorite fragranceon one’s skin boosts
self-confidence miles high
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A sassy outfit, stylishly-coiffed hair and
perhaps a beloved accessory or two create the perfect equation for igniting the
spark
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Increase your chances of time together with that
special one
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A long soaking bath softens and elegantly scents
your skin, transforming you into the right kind of magnet to your man
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Finally, cultivate this simple habit: commit to
one evening a week just for the two of you – no work, no family and friends, no
finances troubles, no hobbies, no phones –and watch the spark revive!
